Ambiguous N kinds between men and women after breaking up
Your love has come to an end quietly. He who has made your soul lingering has become a past tense, and you, really let it go?
It is not terrible to end a relationship, I believe every woman has encountered it, but do you know where to put him in your heart?
An unforgettable lover?
A close friend?
A sexual partner?
A person who doesn’t want to remember anymore?
Finding the answer means you can continue on the road freely and ready for a new love.
When the good friends’ love chemistry disappears, even if you two are drunk and drunk, there will be no drunkenness.
When you two are together, the relationship is more like brothers and sisters than lovers who are in love with each other.
Heard that he has a new girlfriend, you will not be jealous, but will be happy for him.
He treats every friend honestly, and you know you can tell him anything about life.
Such ex-boyfriend is likely to develop into your “good friend”, especially since you can no longer spark sparks.
Even if you lose your love, you can still enjoy each other’s friendship.
In addition, he still remembers why he fell in love with you at the beginning, and when you need him, he will still show up to support you.
But because your two wives are familiar with each other, it is very likely that you will refuse to meet a new boyfriend. You may think that re-acquainting yourself with this stage is too tiring, or it is more comfortable with him.
This then became a hindrance.
So be sure to remember: he is just your good friend, and your Prince Charming is not far away.
It feels good to have sex with him as a sexual partner, but you don’t want to have deeper relationships.
You don’t want to eat out with him or accompany him to other social activities.
The next morning you have sex with him, you don’t regret what you did last night.
If one day he tells you that he can’t have sex with you anymore, you don’t think it matters.
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When it ‘s lonely, it ‘s safer to find a guy you have sex with than to just grab one at a bar?
Besides, you have loved each other.
If you can grasp the point, then finding an ex-boyfriend to solve your physiological needs is a more positive way.
It’s because you are more acquainted with each other in sex, and because after the relationship ends, there will be some reluctance to stay inside.
But this sexual relationship is also difficult to grasp.
You think, “Why do I call him every time?
“” Why didn’t he want to ask me out? ”
“Unconsciously, I am afraid that you will be surrounded by expectations of him again. If you are disappointed, it will inevitably hurt your self-esteem.
As acquaintances, you care about each other, but you don’t need to report every day.
There are factors in him that can’t let you go-some kind of professional relationship or career guidance.
Emotionally you can leave him, you can also not have sex with him.
You always have some regrets after breaking up, but after meeting again, you understand why you left him.
It is not easy to end a relationship, it is usually easy to make people tear heart, but stay away from him and separate each other’s lives, you can calm down and see his true appearance.
Looking at him from a distance, you will find that he is just an ordinary person, and those rays of love have faded.
So you can frankly treat him as an acquaintance and meet for dinner every few months. There is a fun e-mail that will try to copy him.
Thoroughly erase from your mind the thought that he might have a new girlfriend now will make you cry.In fact, just thinking about him can make you cry.
Lie to a friend in order to hide his desire to meet him, because you know they will definitely object.
When you are at work, with your friends, and even with your new boyfriend, you often think of him.
The two of you split up and down many times.
Some people stay with you for one purpose-torture you.
If you find any of the above fit your current situation, let the tortured guy walk away from you early.
But the difficulty is that the more ex-boyfriends that make you miserable, the harder it is to draw a line with him-because he has imprinted a deep mark on your heart.
He is your poison. From a physiological point of view, they can make your brain react chemically and release adrenaline and hormones, making you physically and psychologically inseparable from him.
And his conflicting style of work makes your relationship more subtle: maybe he will call you three times a day for a week, or maybe he disappears next month.
Your heart is caught up and down by him, the more you want it, the more you desire, and this is exactly what he wants.
Sometimes what he does is not to torture you, or he can’t do without the feeling of being admired by you.
He needs to prove his worth through your feelings, but he will not do anything for you while using you.
Playing in the name of “friends”, many women are willing to collect their old boyfriends who they have abandoned as friends, or have been hurt by each other. In order to show their generosity, they are also willing to have multiple friends after the pain is healed.
What about men?
What did he think when he received a call from his ex-girlfriend?
A few days ago, I went to karaoke with a group of friends I just met. In the joyous laughter, I found that two people were not quite right-mainly because the love song was always a drunken person who was not drunk.Unhappy?
The biggest advantage and disadvantage of me is that I can’t see the good things of a lover, so I am determined to make up for the beauty of adults.
So I picked up the microphone and walked to the two of them, “I ordered a song to sing for you!
“The prelude sounded-Cantonese version of” Ping Opera “-” Goodbye is also a friend “.
”I expect you to turn around and stay with me, fall into the wrong direction, and do not want to let go when you are wrong.” After hearing the sings of the two people, I was only missed by the old lover-look at my superfluous.
It is said that the enemies are extremely jealous when they meet each other, but they do not know that this breakup is also very shocking to meet again. Otherwise, there is not much poetry “hate other birds.”
The friendship between men and women has always been ambiguous. Whatever says “goodbye is also a friend” has been continuously cut, and the taste is still chaotic.
The memory of love is beyond our control. According to scientists, the biological process of love is like this: When the person you are interested in appears in your life, your brain stem (located below the hemisphere of the brain) will produce benzene.The nominal amine stimulates your emotional impulses, and the brainstem is beyond our control.
Therefore, don’t expect to control your feelings. You must know that phenylamine is an narcotic substance equivalent to morphine, which guarantees that you will become addicted. It is harder to get rid of it.
My good buddy, Xiaoqi, often makes excuses for the “friendship” tangled with ex-girlfriend Linda.
However, I think that the men and their ex-girlfriends maintain friendship with each other, not to provide scientists with research samples. The most important thing is that it is good for them, so that they can continue to talk in the name of friendship without having to bear.Some people are really selfish in this regard.
If two people still have love after they break up due to various reasons, the man and the ex-girlfriend cannot be friends and can only develop in two directions: recombination, because there is nostalgia; or avoid meeting, because there is still pain.
Only the kind of dust settled and the man with a dead heart of love can have a “friendship” of himself and continue a game.
Therefore, goodbye and friends are indeed a matter of N and beauty. The obligation to love is not exhausted at all, but the rights are not at all.
In addition, you must not think that he and you are friends to make up for the harm to you in love.
The most surprising “pointing” of a man is selfishness and possessiveness. Although it is a breakup he said, he does not want you to find the best substitute quickly, so he will be sad.
So he thinks you boo, ask three times a day and say “as long as you live better than me,” so that when you are with your new boyfriend, you often think of him.
This is the man’s vanity. He cannot be separated from your admiration. He needs to prove his worth through your feelings, but he will not do anything for you while using you.
Having such friends is really bad luck for you.
Out of my typical decent man’s sense of justice and the jealousy of the shameless man sitting in his imagination, I am determined to call Linda to let her get lost and not to delay her great love future.
Who knows that Linda on the phone smiled wildly, “You analyze it well, but these benefits don’t seem to belong to men only. We women can still enjoy them. Don’t forget that this is a feminist look upYears.
-I’ve gotten into my head lately. Why did I forget about feminism? It seems that I have misunderstood the man: Linda was the one who enjoyed the best, and the one who was going to be “very injured” was him.
Stop believing in “goodbye is a friend”. Men are often fraudsters who are “friends” and continue to make excuses for his selfishness.
Therefore, to meet again after the breakup is simply an enemy, Narrow Road. Goodbye is also an enemy. Of course, this “hatred” is the hatred of love and hatred.